My life as a new mom

Thursday, May 29, 2008

Request filled

So it has been requested that I blog some more so here goes...



The Mall...

Mavity took her first trip to the mall this last Monday. She was such a big girl! I put her in her stroller like a big kid, not in her carseat but actually sitting up in the stroller. I almost cried it was so freakin cute!
While at the mall I of course went into Carter's, I was in search of a bathing suit for her. Mavity must have really enjoyed the store because she pooped while we were there. How funny is it to think about pooping in a store at the mall. Anywho, we had to make the treck back the other direction to the family restroom to change her booty. When we got there, there was this strange intercom outside the door that said we had to call to be admitted to the family restroom. So I'm picturing the Wizard of Oz when the doors open to the Emerald city, unfortunately there were no purple horses. There was however a very clean and nice smelling restroom! I changed the munchkin's diaper (no not a munchkin from the lollipop guild) and as we were leaving I noticed another door in the bathroom. Could this be the door to Oz? Or maybe where the wizard is hiding??? No, but in fact it was a nursing room complete with rocking chairs! We left the restroom and continued on with our trip.


We went back to Carter's (where the poop happened) and continued shopping. While shopping around the store I was picking up a dress for Mav when I look down to see a STRANGER HOLDING MAVITY'S HAND!!!!!!!! WTF! Who does she think she is? First off, who gave her permission to touch my child, second..couldn't she at least touch her feet, at least she doesn't put those in her mouth! As soon as she saw me give her the stink eye she released Mavity's hand and quickly went on her way while telling me how adorable my daughter is, as if I didn't already know! We looked around for a while and then finally found a semi-cute bathing suit but since it was the only one I had seen so far I decided to spend the $15 on it.


We make it a few stores past Carter's (where the poop happened) and into Old Navy **angels sing**. We walk around the store so that I can feel bad about myself not fitting into any normal clothes right now and the fact that even if I did I have no money to spend on myself. I end up in the baby clothes section where I find the CUTEST bathing suit I've seen. It has a wet suit like shirt and some cute little booty shorts! FREAKIN ADORABLE!!! And it is only $10, I buy it. I now have to go back to Carter's to return the first suit.

We head back down the mall to Carter's, return the suit and then Mavity decides it is time to eat!!! We then head back to the family restroom with the aforementioned nursing room equipped with rocking chairs. We push the call button and are quickly admitted to the secrect room accessed only by families. How do they know it is a family entering the restroom, are their secret cameras? Is there actually a job where someone sits at a desk and admits people to the family restroom, if so where do I apply?


We enter the restroom and begin to open the door to the nursing room and we are denied access! The nursing room is occupied by another family. The husband and young son leave the mother and baby alone to nurse and allow for me and Mav to enter the room. At which time I had to ask myself how comfortable I was with nursing in a small room with another woman. The answer...AWKWARD! So I wait outside the room pretending to keep myself busy with washing hands and all so the husband of the other woman doesn't feel like I'm being rude and not appreciating his generosity of leaving the room. Also it's kind of weird being in a public restroom with a man and a young boy, I feel like I'm in the wrong room. Anywho, the lady finishes feeding her child and leaves. The room was ours.

While in the room I wonder what if someone else decides to enter the nursing room while I'm nursing, what would I do??? My friend who was with me was sitting in the only other rocking chair in the nursing room. She asks if she should leave should another mother need to nurse, I told her to get a blanket from the diaper bag, put her purse under it and pretend to be nursing too so she doesn't have to leave me. Now that I've written that down I feel like a bitch, I'm glad that didn't actually happen. No one else needs to nurse while we are there.

After the feeding we decide to leave, after a brief stop at Starbucks of course. Mavity slept the whole half hour home and had had a successful and eventful first trip to the mall.


I love being a mom!

Monday, May 26, 2008

Mavity the musical

So I've decided that I am writing a musical. It's going to be titled Mavity, for obvious reasons. Every two seconds I'm singing another song that has the word Mavity in it. My favorite so far goes as follows...
...I....Love....Mavity...
Mavity...
Mavity...
She's so pretty she's so sweet,
with her cute little feet,
want to kiss 'em mwah mwah mwah,
want to eat 'em num num num
I love Ma....Vi...ty!!!!!!!!!!!

I'll let you all know when it hits Broadway!

Is anybody out there???

Does anyone read this? If you do either leave a comment on here or on my myspace so I know if I should keep writing or not!!! Even though I'll probably keep writing anyways.

Tuesday, May 6, 2008







One track mind

Lately I seem to have a one track mind. And it is always on my daughter. I have a hard time thinking about anything else. I guess that is a good thing. I would much rather think about her than most other things. She is such a sweety pie. I just love her to pieces.

Sunday, May 4, 2008

The Real World (and not the MTV show)

So I am very excited to be graduating from college finally but graduating from college brings up a whole new set of stressers! What am I going to do now??? First and foremost I'm going to be a mom and here is where the problem comes in, how can I both make money and be the mom I want to be? I need to make money but I really want to stay home with my daughter as much as possible. I know I have to make money but I just wish there was someway to do it at home. I was planning on substituting starting in August but I'm not sure if that will pay the bills or not. I figured substituting would allow for me to stay home a few days out of the week and still make money. I think this is still the best route to take but here is the one question left lingering. If I work a few days a week and the Mav has to go to daycare will my working just be paying for daycare? Who knew there would be so many questions. I thought life got easier after not having classes and homework to deal with, but I guess the real world is here now. YIKES! I'm not totally sure I'm ready for it. At least now when I'm job searching I can say, "I have a degree now pay me more!!!"

Saturday, May 3, 2008

Overalls and shoes








Today I decided to dress up the Mav! She sure looked cute. We had overalls on her and some really cute shoes. It was her first time wearing shoes! Surprisingly they stayed on the whole time. I was impressed. She looked super cute!

Mavity has been sleeping a lot today and I just feel like I haven't spent that much time with her. I'm really missing her right now and feeling very guilty that I haven't spent enough time with her. She spent a lot of time with her dad today, which is a good thing but I still miss her. In fact I'm actually looking forward to her waking up soon so I can play with her! She is getting really fun to play with. She smiles and talks to us now. It is so much fun to see her change everyday. I love her SOOOO much!!! I can't even imagine a life without being a mommy, it's the best!!!

Friday, May 2, 2008

Poopies

So Mavity's new thing is having REALLY HUGE poopies in the morning. I think she holds it all in during the day and night and then in the morning she lets it rip. I'm talking spew over the top and out of the diaper explosions! Yesterday morning we got up at 7ish and she ate and we were playing and then...she gets this really funny look on her face and I know she is going to poopies. So then she lets out this little tiny toot and the next thing I know there is poopies all over her pj's! So we go and clean her up and change her clothes and back to bed we go. Then no poopies the rest of the day. This morning we woke up at 8ish and played, ate and then funny look and POOP EXPLOSION! At least she's consistent. So every morning I have to soke her pj's from the night before due to the poopies explosions!

Who would have ever imagined a blog about poopies! Oh and I have to call it poopies because it makes it less gross somehow. It's like we can pretent it's something other than poo if we call it poopies. Funny what being a mother will do to your vocabulary.

Yesterday

Yesterday was a big day for me but I couldn't write about it because blogger locked my account because they thought I was SPAM! HOW RUDE!!! Anyways, now that I'm back I'll tell you about my yesterday.

Yesterday I took my very last test as a college student!!! Thats right folks, I am now educated! I was taking my test online and when I had about 10 questions left Mavity woke up and I could hear her crying in the other room, so I just guessed on the last 10 questions, I still got 42/50, not bad I would say. I'm so glad to finally be done with school. It's only taken me 8 years or is it 9, hard to remember that far back.

Mavity is doing great! She is getting so big. I think she is going to start rolling over soon. In a way I'm excited for her to roll over and in another way I'm not because that means she is getting older and it's going too fast! I love her so much!!!!